Downsizing with Dignity

About eight months ago, I relocated from north Louisiana to Reno, Nevada. Within

the prior 6 years, I had lost both parents and my husband, and my only son and grandson

had moved to Nevada. Though I had lived my entire life (from the age of 5) in Louisiana,

I felt I had to move with my family, the only close family I had left.

With that huge move, I felt I had to downsize. I had a 2200 square foot house in Louisiana,

but it was too much for me to keep up with. I loved that house, but I made the decision

to sell it and move. Now I am in a 1200 square foot apartment, and yes, I had to get rid

of a lot of "stuff". In fact, I even got rid of things that I actually had moved to Nevada.

Believe me, it was hard. I let go of a lot of things that I thought I couldn't let go of.

But now, I am so happy in my new home. I almost started over with furniture, only keeping

a few items that really meant a lot to me. And I have created a cozy little haven that is

totally different from my old home, but so very much "me" .

A friend recently told me that she hated to move because she would have to get rid of so

many things that were sentimental to her. I tried to explain to her that it IS possible. Yes,

she will have to let go of some things, but her memories would always be there. And this

applies to all of you out there. Downsizing with dignity is possible. You just have to do

it. There will be tears, and some second-guessing, but in the long run, it will work out.

Don't be afraid of letting go, and facing the next chapter of your life. There is so much

waiting for you.